loganvaulter wrote: ... how much effort is put into getting the hips over the shinders , or is it just supposed to happen . i read every where not to row" at certain times but are you ever suppose to pull your hips up to your top hand because like i said my top hand always stays parallel with my shin and im in a V shape
Yes, it's "just supposed to happen". By that I mean that the more power you can put in your swing down below, the less "muscle work" you have to do to finish your vault. A good swing will just "naturally" swing your hips above your shoulders - without rowing or using much muscle-power at all.
The only time that you should "row" is to salvage an OCCASSIONAL vault with a bad swing, but be careful not to make a habit of this, because it will become a habit that's hard to break. It's much better to just focus on a better swing.
This is easier said than done tho. It's one thing to describe how you SHOULD be doing this, but to actually DO IT is another thing altogether.
Your problem is not unique - this is probably the most classic PV problem there is. Boiled down, it's the "tuck and shoot" technique v. the Petrov Model.
If you haven't already figured out from my posts, Altius' posts, and the posts of many other coaches and elite vaulters that understand this exact issue (you know who you are), you should review some of the threads that describe this issue. Key words to search for are "tuck shoot", "Petrov Model", "shoot to a handstand", "downswing upswing", and on and on. Since you've only posted 3 times, you probably haven't browsed PVP much - but you should!
I will also put in a plug on behalf of Altius that you should study BTB2 and its DVD - since he's going to suggest that anyway.
It's usually helpful to see you vid to understand your problem better, but from your description, I think it's already well-known. However, vids would help, so please post those on the Video Review Forum - if you haven't already done so.
I've also (quite recently) answered similar questions in the "visual cues while vertical" thread here:
http://www.polevaultpower.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=38&t=28056, so check that out. Try to ignore the fluff and focus on the key questions and the key answers.

It's in the Advanced Technique forum (as are most of my posts), but as Altius will tell you (and I agree), the Petrov Model basics are the same at every skill level. Just skip the "advanced" detail - if you can - until you get the basics working right - once your PR is 5.00+ (16-5). You could get there next year if you train hard!
Here's 4 ideas for you ...
1. Consider using a highbar or rings or a chinup bar to improve your swing. Swing with a good, strong trail leg, swinging your hips above your shoulders. On a chinup bar, you will have to tuck into a ball to finish this drill UNDER the chinup bar, but that's OK - the important part of this drill is to learn to swing your trail leg powerfully enough to raise your hips "naturally".
If you can't do this on a highbar, then I ask you: "How do you expect to do it on a pole, after running full speed down the runway?"
2. Figure out why you can raise your hips on a popup, but not in a real vault. If you can figure that out, maybe you just need to do the same? For one thing, your grip is much lower on a popup. Could that be why it's easier for you? If that's the case, then try lowering your grip on your REAL vaults, and see if you can swing your hips up better. Just an idea. Experiment.
3. Try all your experiments on a highbar (or chinup bar or rings), then on a short run popup, then on a short run with a bend, then (and only then) on a long run REAL vault. Don't expect to learn and apply an idea immediately on a REAL vault - it doesn't work that easily - it takes hard work and step-by-step progression towards REAL vaults.
4. You probably lack "gut strength", so strengthen your stomach muscles by doing at least 50 situps a day, 5 days a week. This will help your swing. Rest only the day before a track meet. Do these in the early morning or late evening so that they don't interfere with your other training (by tiring you out) - you can do situps anywhere. You won't get instant results (it may take a month), but you should feel the benefits of all these situps in time for your important meets in May and June.
Good luck in your Junior season this year!
Kirk Bryde